“Think like a queen. A queen is not afraid to fail. Failure is another stepping stone to greatness” Oprah Winfrey
Whatever she may feel inside, a Sophisticate faces problems that come her way. Unafraid, she carries herself as if there is no doubt that she is not afraid to face anything. A Sophisticate is not beneath any situation or circumstance unless it is for the greatest good for the greatest amount of people. She will go to great lengths to achieve her goals.
A Sophisticate does not have to have a royal title to be a Queen and be admired by those around her whether it is her friends or her family. A Sophisticate has the respect of those around her because she acts admirably and fair.
When I would sit with my great-grandmother in her room she had me sit on stool. Whenever I would sit there she would make sure my posture was excellent. At the time I would be in pain and would wonder why my Great Grandmother would insist that I had good posture. A lady, she told me, could always be distinguished by the way she carries herself whether it be while she is standing, walking, or even sitting down.
A Sophisticate walks with elegant posture and her confidence is shown outwardly with every step she takes. Like a mountain, she refuses to bow to anyone unless it has to do with the sacrifice that comes from being in love.
A Sophisticate is a Queen because she has earned the respect of others. When she faces a difficult challenge or problem, no one can tell by her face or actions. With grace and elegance, she quietly achieves her goals and gains respect from those around her. In the end, a Sophisticate is a Queen because she never backs down in the face of a challenging situation and is never afraid to ask for the respect she rightly deserves.