A Sophisticate has a Secret

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"If you are feeling good, it is because you are thinking good thoughts" Rhonda Byrne, 'The Secret' 

Recently, I met with Andy Kostow CEO & Founder of Dream Life Thinking. When we met  at Starbucks it started with him asking me what I wanted. My response was "If had a magic wand..." At the end of the picture of my future that I created for him he told me that I had a magic wand that will make whatever I just described for him come true. An overwhelming feeling of happiness and relief washed over me.

A Sophisticate has the ability to do and have what she wants.  If a Sophisticate accepts her thoughts (conscious self) as true then it goes to her emotions and feelings (subconscious)  resulting in her sending out vibrations that translate into her actions. 

A Sophisticate listens to her inner voice. Her inner voice is the same as her intuition and her intuition is her ability to read those vibrations.  

"Whether you think you can, or you think you can't - you're right"   Henry Ford

When situations go well  there is no end to situations going well. Why? Her happiness creates more happy times. The same is true for negative situations. For example, have you ever worried that you were late for an event or situation and then you were? Remember the last time you thought to yourself 'I don't want to be late' and then subsequently you were. This is the law of the attraction.

“Our doubts are traitors, and make us lose the good we oft might win, by fearing to attempt.” William Shakespeare 'Measure for Measure

When a Sophisticate is in a relationship and worries that her spouse might be cheating or doubts his faithfulness, her behavior sends out vibrations that result in her acting desperate and needy. Her behavior thereby results in her becoming unattractive to her spouse enough for him to cheat on her.  

A Sophisticate does not compete. Her fear, doubt, focusing on the wrong situations or circumstances, causes a Sophisticate to fail (A Sophisticate is a Failure). Why? Because it wasn't what she truly wanted. Her thoughts, feelings, and actions allow her to fail.

“Once you make a decision, the universe conspires to make it happen.” Ralph Waldo Emerson 

A Sophisticate shifts her thinking from what she has to what she wants. 

When a Sophisticate can see, feel, or think anything it appears. Why? Because she is a magnet. She attracts and becomes what she thinks about. A Sophisticate is creative and has an enormous imagination (A Sophisticate in Wonderland). She has control over her life and when she focuses her thoughts they come into being. Even when she doesn't want something it comes into being. 

This is true in relationships. When a Sophisticate has a connection with someone else it because they are on the same frequency.  (Connection vs. ChemistryMeetings are not accidental and that is why a Sophisticate finds her soul mate when she is pursuing what she loves. When she does what she loves, she will find who she loves. Hence, why some people find their soul mate at their favorite coffee shop, or through a party of a mutual friend, at school, or at work. All the places she loves is where she finds her true love.

If a Sophisticate isn't  aware of her thoughts, she gets what she gets. A Sophisticate thinks in pictures.  Every moment we are thinking towards those mental pictures and therefore into results. 

"Nothing makes a woman more beautiful than the belied that she is beautiful" Sophia Loren

More than having manners (A Sophisticate has Manners),  when she is grateful for what she receives even before she receives it, it is granted to her. A Sophisticate is what she thinks about. Her mind is an activity and is in every cell of her being. Once she is aware that her thoughts drive her feelings and consequently her actions the transformation begins. Belief is half being.

"You'll never find a rainbow if you're looking down" Charles Chaplin

Whatever a Sophisticate sees is her programming from the past. Her programming is what other people told a Sophisticate growing up about who she was or what she wanted. If a Sophisticate can change the picture, she change s the result. Animals don't have a reasoning faculty in their mind so they can't change their environment. A Sophisticate has the the ability to change her environment because she has these intellectual faculties. Animals operate by instinct.

More than just changing her environment, a Sophisticate can break through and tackle any obstacle in front of her. Why? Paradigms are a group of habits or ideas. Paradigms is in the subconscious mind where are her emotions and feelings exist.  If a Sophisticate can break through logic then she can create her life. In other words, when she knows the impossible is possible then she creates her reality to what is possible.

Dorothy:"Oh, will you help me? Can you help me?"
Glinda, the Good Witch: "You don't need to be helped any longer. You've always had the power to go back to Kansas" from the movie 'Wizard of Oz' (1939)

In the end, a Sophisticate has a secret. Her secret is that she has the power to have, obtain, and be whoever and whatever she wants merely with a wave of her magic wand ;D